Saturday, January 24, 2009

Late Post





Well folks, I'm sorry. I was suppose to post some new pics after my retightening on January 3rd. Unfortunetly after my retightening session, on my way to my mom's I got a terrible call informing me my very good friend had died. James was more than my friend, he was family. He had been battling colon cancer and issues related to it since 2007. His passing came as a complete surprise, especially since I had just spoken to him the previous Sunday briefly due to him telling me he would call me back since he was talking to his mother. Anyway... I just haven't felt like blogging. My heart has been so heavy with the loss of my friend. I can't even bare to remove his number off my speed dial on my iPhone. I loved him very much. I try to lift myself up by saying that one day I'll see him again in glory.

Ok, on to something more positive. Next week I will have been on lockdown for 6 months. How exciting is that! My SL consultant did acknowledge that my hair is starting to lock, but......of course I still have a whole lot of perm on the length of my hair. This is and will continue to be a journey, a long one. I've been debating about if I'll want my consultant to start cutting my permed ends when I reach my 1 yr. lockerversary this summer. Then I think, well I'll just leave my hair alone and let it do it's thang without touching it. For those of you who have started with permed ends, share if you will or have cut off your permed ends, or if you are debating the issue like I am. Otherwise enjoy the pictures above. I did a little styling for my friends funeral. Turned out pretty cute for my first updo.


Love, peace, and no hair grease.

P.S. Rest in peace James, I love you.

9 comments:

Nubian1 said...

Sorry to hear of your loss, i lost a good male friend six months ago and when i still think of him i find it hard to believe he's gone. Stay strong my friend, he is now free from pain and at peace!

Your hair looks lovely and I am loving the different styles you're working.

Lalaboobaby said...

Thank you for your kind words Nubian1. I appreciate it.

Naturally KiKi said...

I, too, am sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. I pray that God will give you the strength and peace needed to get through this loss.

Your hair looks awesome!!! Love the up-do style!!!

Afrolady said...

I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your dear friend. Losing a close, close friend is sometimes worse than losing a family member. My friend Gary passed almost 10 years ago and I still can't put into words the loss that I feel. I pray your strength and comfort.

Your locs are lovely and that updo is SLAMMIN!!

euphoria said...

sorry about your loss, my sister died suddenly healthy one day and gone the next, will pray that you find comfort in God, family, friends, and blog friends. I don't know how you got that updo up there but it is fierce you must give a tutorial.

Khandi said...

My condolences for your lost. I can only imagine the pain that you are going through with the loss of someone so dear to you. I pray that God will continue to strengthen you. Remember weeping my endure for a night but joy comes in the morning. This dark night will pass.

Your locs look lovely and i love the up-do. I started all natural so i cannot comment on when to cut the perm ends

Lalaboobaby said...

Thank you ladies for all the encouraging words in regards to my loss. I really appreciate it. I pray that God blesses each of you.

LadyButterfly said...

Everyone's encouragements are so beautiful and sincere. I hope that you are continuing to feel the encouragement of those around you that care so much. I know that with the Lord's help you will get through this tough time. Although it is painful, one day you will be able to be strong for someone else. Surround yourself in the peace of God's love.
Your hair looks absolutely gorgeous. LOCK ON!

Lalaboobaby said...

You lady's have been wonderful with the encourgement you have given. Thank you so much.